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Practicing Peace
A Sermon based on Philippians 4:1-13 |
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What good Texas preacher would get up and not say
something about Vince Young this past week?
It’s 4th and 5, with 19 seconds on the clock,
about 12 yards out from the goal line with the National College
Football Championship weighing in the balance.
It doesn’t get any better than that!
Scrambling some 12 yards, he capped off almost 500 yards of
gain in one game! Not
only sealing the deal for the Texas Longhorns and their national
championship, but also setting a national championship game record for
personal rushing. What do
you think was behind all that? There’s
no way in the world that that one run just happened.
Don’t you believe that there was just a little bit of
practice behind all the things that took place the other night? The next night Jay Leno invited Vince Young to
his show. Leno asked Young about some of his early childhood
disappointments and heartbreaks.
It was impressive that Young almost all but brushed them aside,
to talk instead about his mother, who taught him to practice
discipline in the face of disappointment.
When he disobeyed her, she would put a rake in his hand and
make him go outside and rake leaves as discipline, he recalled as one
example. There was far
more to that victory the other night than what showed up on the screen
for those few brief seconds. There
were years and years of practice of some of life’s most basic
disciplines in that event. This morning, if we say that nobody gets good at
anything without practice, we’ve said nothing new whatsoever.
That’s all but self-evident.
What is not so self-evident is that, just like everything else
we do, faith also takes practice.
The message this morning is built around one particular verse
in this chapter from Philippians 4, verses 1-13.
In the New International Version, the words are translated like
this (Paul, writing to the Philippians church):
“Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me
-- put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.” It is, perhaps, one of the least appreciated
truths of scripture, that faith takes practice.
Yet, in this particular text, each and every time the word
“peace” is mentioned, it is mentioned as the byproduct of
something else that has been practiced.
Doesn’t it make sense that the lack of peace we sometimes
live with, many times live with, may well be the result not of God’s
failure to have the best intentions for us, but of our unwillingness
to practice some of faith’s most basic disciplines? The victory of peace that so eludes us, a sense of
well-being, a sense that we’re safe, a sense that God is for us,
even if the whole world is against us, the ability to sleep at night
and face each day with a sense of inner calm, the ability to respond
to the anger and even the meanness of other people instead of reacting
to it -- all of that, that we might call peace, eludes us unless we
practice some basic faith disciplines. Like, healthy
thinking. Several
years ago, Nancy and I inherited a trash can, believe it or not.
As things as shaking out right now, that stands to be the best
we can hope to inherit, even after all the wills are read.
But, up until then, we had been a one-trash-can family. We went on vacation, and when we came back, we had an extra
trash can. Someone had
thrown it over our fence into our back yard.
It wasn’t ours, but apparently it had blown down the alley. Someone, thinking it was ours, just tossed into our back
yard, meaning to give it back to us.
It was ugly, broken. I
didn’t like it. The
next day, I put it out for the trash collectors, only to learn that
trash collectors don’t think of trash cans as trash.
When I went back to bring the trash can
in, I ended up with two trash cans. We’ve had two ever since then. The thing that’s been really interesting to me
is, now we need it. Up
until then, we’d only needed one trash can; now, we need two.
It’s like the volume of our trash has grown in direct
proportion to our willingness to accommodate it.
If someone threw another trash can over our back yard fence, I
suspect in a couple or three weeks we’d need three trash cans.
Even before downloadable pornography even existed, twenty
centuries ago, one of the greatest disciplines of peaceful living, the
Apostle said, involved the practice of healthy thinking.
If you will, in computerese these days, downloading healthy
thoughts. “Whatever is true,
whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is
pleasing, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence and if
there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.”
That not only involves the willingness to be careful about what
we put into our minds. Healthy
thinking also involves the capacity to have a good garbage disposal
system. That’s one of the things prayer was meant to be
for us. To help us
dispose of mental, spiritual garbage.
The Apostle writes, “Do not worry about anything, but in everything by prayer with
supplication and thanksgiving, let your request be made known to
God.” In everything!
In our best thoughts and worst thoughts.
In our most noble thoughts and our most despicable thoughts.
In everything, healthy thinking means letting our needs and
requests be made known to God. A dear friend of mine and I have been talking
lately about how little we understand prayer.
Three and four decades into our faith journey, we just feel
like novices. It’s such
a difficult thing to grasp. What
does it mean to be a person of prayer, really?
How do you do it? When do you do it? The
Apostle Paul once lamented, “We
do not know how to pray as we ought” (Romans 8:26b). What I’ve come to discover is that there are
different ways to pray. When
it comes to prayer, there is no such thing as a one-size-fits-all
prayer life. I used to
feel guilty because I was told in some discipleship courses that I
should pray early in the morning.
I never could quite pull that off with any consistency.
Then, I was told, “You can pray late at night if you don’t
make it early in the morning.” But, I never get anything productive done after about 9
o’clock at night. My
life needs change. My
circumstances change. My
prayer needs change. What
I have learned to do is pray as I go. Isn’t it true that the people you really love
the most, you stay in touch with every day?
A lot? It’s not just a one-time letter at Christmas you get or
send; it’s a daily conversation you have with these people. The practice of prayer involves the willingness to practice
healthy thinking by making certain that we’re in daily conversation
with God about the things that would otherwise become garbage in our
minds. Some people refer to this as the Information Age.
I choose to refer to it as the Information Overload Age.
Not that many years ago, very few people on this planet had
access to a daily newspaper. Just
ten years ago, very few if any of us in this room even had email
addresses. Now, we not
only have the Internet, we have the capacity to take the Internet with
us virtually anywhere we go, anytime of day or night.
Fifty miles outside of Riga, Latvia, last summer, I was able to
access the Internet and read our church’s web page, that far away. Our capacity to get and store information has
grown exponentially. So
it is that one of our greatest challenges as disciples of Jesus will
be the discipline in the face of increasing difficulty to be very
determined and intentional about what we choose to retain in our minds
and what we choose to let go. In
fact, we could legitimately sum up the scripture we’ve read this
morning like this. “Disciples
of Jesus are people who think intentionally.” I hold in my hand a little thing called a flash
drive. You can plug it
into the side of your computer and download the information and save
it. In case something
happens to the computer, you’ve got everything transferred to
another computer. This is
a 2-gigabyte flash drive. My
very first computer, in 1989, was about the size of this tabletop and
had only a 20-megabyte hard drive. This
flash drive has a 2-gigabyte capacity, 100 times greater than my
entire hard drive of my first computer.
My first computer would hold about 5,000 pages of data.
This little thing, many times smaller, will hold one-half million
pages of data. Yet, with
increased capacity to store data has also come the capacity to access
more data than I can and should store.
It’s my responsibility to choose what to keep and what to
throw away. No one, but
no one, is responsible for that but me. I can keep good things and pictures and memories on this
thing, or I can download despicable things.
It’s up to me. So it is with our hearts and our minds.
For example, when it comes to people who have hurt us and
offended us, some people say the best way to deal with that is just to
forgive and forget. A
mental discipline, they say, of choosing to forget.
The problem is, there’s no way to do that.
Forgetting the pain that other people have caused us is not as
simple as erasing our hard drive.
In fact, it’s not possible to forget those who have really
wounded us deeply. What’s more, Jesus never once commanded us to do that.
Nowhere in scripture can you find Jesus saying, “Forget your
enemies.” What he did
say was, “Pray for those who
despitefully use you” (Matthew 5:44).
Every remembrance of someone who has hurt us we should take as
the Spirit’s prompting to pray for them.
We cannot change the past but we can reframe the past by taking
it out of the old frame of anger and hurt and desire for retribution
and reframing that event in the grace of God by praying for those who
have hurt us. We get to
choose what we think about. It’s been hard for me to learn, but I have come
to discover that I don’t have to have an opinion about everything.
I don’t have to have an idea for everything.
That my mind and my heart only have so much capacity for
storage, and it is my responsibility before God how I choose to think. I don’t know, for example, what to think about
this conflict in the Middle East.
I was so broken-hearted this week to hear of a prominent
Christian leader saying that Israeli Prime Minister Sharon’s stroke
was the judgment of God for giving away God’s land. He based his pontification on some obscure text in the book
of Joel, totally ignoring what Jesus about peacemakers being the
blessed ones. I don’t
know what to think, though, about the Israeli conflict.
Who’s right? Who’s
wrong? What if some of
both is true about both? But,
what if, this year, instead of trying to think about who’s right and
who’s wrong, instead of giving our energy there, or in our personal
conflicts, always trying to prove this or that, what if we simply
prayed for peace? What if
we prayed for peace in our relationships, peace in our world?
If the only thing praying for peace does is make us more
peaceful people, by transforming the way we think, then this world
will already be a better place. We
have to practice peace by practicing healthy thinking. We must also practice peace by practicing
contentment. “I have learned,” the Apostle said, “to be content.” “I’ve
gone to school. I’ve
passed some of the tests. I’ve
failed some others. I’ve
made some C minuses and some A plusses.
But I have finally learned,” he said, “what it means to be
content with whatever I have.”
You know, talk about cutting against the grain of upwardly
mobile American culture. Is
Paul saying, “I’ve learned to settle for less than the best”?
Or, for second best? Right
before that, the Apostle said that the Philippians had been so
gracious to him, in responding to his needs.
Then he jumps quickly, kind of like Vince Young, brushing off
the disappointments of the past, saying, “Not that I’m referring
to these needs. That’s not the issue I’m trying to talk about.
My needs have come and gone.
My needs have changed. But
I’ve learned, despite the barometer of my needs, the secret of
maintaining an inner contentment.” The question is not how the needs of our lives
change, but how we choose to respond to those needs.
We can panic and grasp; we can refuse to settle for second
best, no matter what it costs anyone else for us to have the best.
And, when we do, this is the result.
As James wrote, “What
causes fights and quarrels among you?
Don't they come from your desires that battle within you?
Your greed? You
want something but don't get it. You kill and covet, but you cannot
have what you want. You quarrel and fight. You do not have, because
you do not ask God. When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask
with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures (James
4:1-3, NIV),” because [my
paraphrase] you think you’re entitled! We can do that kind of clawing and grasping, or
we can practice contentment. Faith,
hope, and love are all gifts. Contentment
is the one spiritual gift we have to learn.
Or, not. What if
we don’t learn? One of the most difficult movies I’ve seen in a
long time is Steven Spielberg’s movie, Munich.
It’s a story about the Israeli athletes who were murdered by
Palestinian terrorists at the 1972 Olympics.
The movie is built around the events growing out of the choice
of the Israeli government to seek out the eleven terrorists who were
responsible for plotting the murders.
There is one particular character whose job it is to seek them
out and kill them all. It’s
a true story. It really happened. In
the end, the terrorists got what they deserved, got what was coming to
them. But, an interesting
repercussion of the Israeli’s revenge that the assassin of the
murderers lives the rest of his life in fear of those who will seek to
kill him in retribution for those he killed because they had killed
someone! Where does it all end?!
Where does all this insanity and this war, and this quarreling,
and this killing end?! If
we think evil is going to end when those who did what they did get
what they’ve got coming to them or that evil is going to end when we
finally put a needle in the criminal’s arm in the death chamber, we
are kidding ourselves. Someone,
somewhere, has to break the cycle of evil, or we will keep destroying
each other in ways both big and small, to no effect except that we
will continue to become more and more like those we hate. “Let
your gentleness,” the Apostle says, from a prison cell, where he
was unjustly held for the holiest of causes, “Let
your gentleness be known to everyone.
The Lord is near.” What
did he mean? Did he mean the Lord is coming soon, or does he mean the Lord
is close by? What
difference does it make? Both
in time and space, the Lord is near.
If we really believe that, won’t that change the way we
relate to others? Instead
of fighting and grasping and clawing to get ahead, for what we believe
is rightfully ours, won’t that make us more peaceful and respectful
and gentle? I started first grade in Lafayette, Louisiana,
when I was five years old. I
was way too young to start school.
I really wasn’t ready to leave home for first grade until I
was about 30, or something like that.
But, every day, I had to ride the bus to school, and that was
just a big chunk of separation anxiety for me to bite off at that age.
My teacher seemed to know that.
One day, she called me up to the desk at the beginning of the
day, and she said, “I have something very special to tell you.
Today, instead of riding the bus home, your mother’s coming
to get you.” I don’t remember why Mom was coming to get me that day.
But, instead of having to ride that big old yellow bus home, my
mother was coming to get me. It changed my whole day.
I was the happiest kid in the class, because the person I loved
the most was coming to get me. If we really believe that, no matter how much we
give away, or how much we lose, we really can’t lose, because the
Lord is near, if we really believe that, won’t that change the way we treat each
other? We cannot give a
gentleness to others we don’t have.
And, our spirits will not be gentled until we know the Lord is
near. Another way of saying this is that we cannot
practice compassion for others, gentle compassion, unless our souls
have been gentled with compassion.
A couple of weeks ago, I was going to play golf with Jerry
Spivey and some other people. The
golf carts were parked up by the clubhouse on a concrete patio of
sorts. Before we teed
off, I went to throw some trash away.
As I dropped something in the trash, I turned to step away,
back toward the golf cart, and my foot caught this rock, about the
size of Gibraltar, and I started to fall.
Now, everything I’m about to describe to you happened in
about 1.5 - 2 seconds. But, as I relive this memory in slow motion milliseconds,
this is what I thought. As I started to fall, I thought, “I’m going
to be okay. I’m going to get my right foot out here in front of myself,
get stable; I’m not going to fall.”
The second thought I had, very quickly, was, “No, I am going
to fall, but I’ll be okay.” The
third thought I had, as I got closer to the ground, was, “I’m
going to fall, and I think this is really going to hurt.”
Sure enough, I couldn’t even get my hands out in front of me,
and I fell with my arm underneath me, and my head slammed on the
concrete, giving me an instant headache!
As I lay there on the ground, I thought, “Wow, that really
did hurt!” The next
thought I had was, “I really hope nobody saw that.” I stood up and walked back to the golf cart just as Jerry
Spivey walked up and said, “Good roll, Schmucker!” I cannot tell you how many times I have gotten a
phone call here at the office, when someone would say, “Mrs.
So-and-So fell.” Or,
“Mr. So-and-So fell, and they’ve taken him to the emergency
room.” Every time I get
one of those calls, I’ve always feared for what that means.
As people get older, simple falls can be life threatening.
Now, I have personal experience with falling.
I remember the helpless feeling of knowing there was nothing I
could do about it, and it was going to hurt, and I was going to be
humiliated. I’m telling
you, I will never again take a call about somebody falling, without
feeling for them a deeper sense of compassion. Contentment does not grow out of always winning
and never falling. It
grows out of practicing the peace that comes with gentle compassion
and the gentleness of Jesus for all who have fallen.
Even when, especially when, their falling takes us down, too. Contentment doesn’t mean settling for second
best, as though that would be the worst we could do.
Contentment is something we discover on the way to helping
achieve what is best for all God’s children.
No matter what it costs us.
That’s compassion. About 20 years ago, something like that, I
repeated a joke to some friends that I had heard.
I repeated the joke for the same reason we always repeat jokes
-- it was funny. It had
the win-win possibility for me as a preacher in that it was also
clean. So, I repeated
this joke. The only
problem was that the humor of the joke was rooted in a racial
stereotype. I passed it
along, I thought it was funny, we all had a great laugh!
About two weeks later, no joke, I found myself in the very same
dilemma I had described humorously in the joke about another race two
weeks before. This time,
it wasn’t funny, because the joke was on me.
I don’t tell jokes like that anymore.
One reason is because, when it comes to humor, especially
humor, there’s a very, very thin line between “racial” and
“racist.” Another
reason is because I have discovered with some Christian maturity that,
are we all not a part of the same race?
The human race? Yet another reason is that, in my stumbling and
my falling, I have learned through great humiliation that the moment
we lose our compassion, even for the sake of humor, the moment we lose
our compassion for another brother or sister for whom Christ also
died, we stand on the brink of stumbling at the very same place for
which we have judged others in their stumbling. Before this year is out, most of us in this room
most certainly will ask, in one way or another, “Why did God let me
fall? Why did it hurt so
badly? Why have I been
the one humiliated?” I’m
going to tell you right now -- there’s no answer for that question.
Not in this lifetime; maybe never.
The only question we can ask and answer is, in our stumbling
and in our falling, in our winning and our losing, in our gain and our
grief, the only question we will be allowed to both ask and answer is
whether or not we will practice the peace of God by practicing the way
we choose to think and whether or not we practice the contentment of
God’s gracious compassion. If we practice peace that way, the promise of God
is that his peace will guard our hearts and souls, no matter what.
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| Glen Schmucker, Pastor |
January 8, 2006
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| Copyright © 2006, Glen Schmucker | |